For Stephane, instant gratification was kind of a double-edged sword. Tight money while growing up in New Brunswick meant he went without lots of “stuff” that other kids had. As an adult, credit gave him access to that “stuff”, but also lured him into the short-term euphoria of the “buy now and pay later” mentality.
“Growing up my parents didn’t have a lot of money, so I wouldn’t get a lot of stuff compared to other kids. I guess when I first started getting credit cards, I looked at it more as a way to get stuff now rather than wait and save money. That’s how I got in the mess that I got in…I wanted it now and wasn’t going to wait and save money.”
According to Stephane, the enjoyment of being able to make on the spot purchases quickly faded when he realized that his debt load was ramping up to an unsustainable level.
His run in acquiring debt started innocently enough- with a move West in 2007 with a girlfriend, complete with dreams of fortune and great jobs as the lure “I sold everything I owned and fit it in a small car to drive to Edmonton and do what everyone else was doing, make money. But unlike some people who’ve made the move, I made almost no money and nearly declared bankruptcy.”
When he moved, he had minimal, manageable debt (including a couple of low-balance credit cards and a furniture loan) but that quickly changed as the couple settled into their new reality. Simply, Stephane’s girlfriend at the time struggled to keep a job. His plans to work in construction got railroaded when he sustained a shoulder injury and got laid off after three months. They were faced with the burden of trying to keep up their lifestyle with income that either wasn’t there, or was unsteady. They turned to credit as a means to an end – which resulted in some dire consequences.
“She had a hard time keeping a job, so we had a hard time keeping up with our bills. So I ended up having to max out a few credit cards and was not able to pay out my loan. I was involved with Cash stores– and it was a never-ending nightmare.”
Stephane found himself at a debt crossroads. “At that point, I was considering declaring bankruptcy. I was getting phone calls constantly.”
He had heard from a friend about credit counselling, and after an internet search, found Consolidated Credit and got the ball rolling.
He says that the help he got from Consolidated was key to getting control back over his finances and restoring his financial health.
The greatest challenge was getting the information organized. Stephane’s credit problems centered not only on the amount (about $12,000) but on the fact that there were numerous creditors.
“It’s (credit counselling) a great option if you’ve gotten yourself to the point that you need someone to help you out. Consolidated Credit was really good with all of my creditors. They spent a lot of time on my account dealing with different creditors. It was a really good process,” says Stephane.
He stuck with it, and was successful in paying off his debt over a two-and-a-half year period. At 28, he is married with two kids and has a much rosier financial picture than he did a few years ago, with the asset side of his balance sheet growing too.
“We just bought our first house last month and all my good financial decisions now are due in part to the help I received from CCCSC and the many lessons I learned about managing my finances.”
What does Stephane take away from his experience? “What I have learned is now I won’t just go out and buy anything with my credit card. I pay off my credit card every week or every two weeks.”
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